I've noticed that most of the people I talk to don't give me a chance to talk about myself, and when I do they either ignore what I said and keep talking about themselves, or go "yeah..." and go on about themselves, and I'm getting kinda annoyed. Like, I

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I've noticed that most of the people I talk to don't give me a chance to talk about myself, and when I do they either ignore what I said and keep talking about themselves, or go "yeah..." and go on about themselves, and I'm getting kinda annoyed. Like, I


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don't wanna just talk about me, but at least even it out some so I'm not just listening for the entire conversation
Idk if this is selfish or not but I'm getting annoyed
@caption - Yeah, whenever I’m with a certain friend all she uses me is for ranting and talking about herself and when I talk about myself then she just ignores me
That's valid and really awful. Friendships should never be one-sided.
that sounds one-sided... 😬 All my “friendships” used to be like that when I lived in CA and it was awful. It’s not selfish to want to be a part of the conversation rather than just listening silently the whole time. I get how frustrating it can be
OMG I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE ANNOYED BY THIS that seriously describes my relationship with a lot of people I know. I’m that one friend that always listens, but whenever I talk about my life nobody seems to care? That’s actually my main pet peeve and biggest turn off in a person tbh.
It’s not selfish to want to talk about yourself and your life some. I used to think this as well due to my many experiences with this, but it’s not selfish at all x