Gotta love high school. โœจ I'd love to hear your opinions in the comments. ๐Ÿ˜Š I hope you all have a lovely weekend. ๐ŸŒป

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Gotta love high school. โœจ I'd love to hear your opinions in the comments. ๐Ÿ˜Š I hope you all have a lovely weekend. ๐ŸŒป


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I totally can relate this๐Ÿ˜Š
That was an amazing speech. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ๐ŸŒป๐ŸŒฟ we probably feel the need to date and flirt in high school, because back in the past (wayyy back) young adults got married around these times. maybe that is still ingrained in us somehow.
I agree completely. And thank you darling.๐ŸŒน I hope your weekend treats you well.
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you have such a way with words, it blows my mind away. i agree fully with everything you said here. additionally, if my parents found out i had a boyfriend, id probably be grounded for the rest of my life. have either of your sisters dated anyone yet?
itโ€™s really true unfortunately, but more than relationships life is rushed as though we canโ€™t get things done fast enough and itโ€™s not right. You need to take life at the pace you think is right, not the pace that society pushes you to be at๐Ÿ’•โœจ
you make some great points , our society does love to push.
and I totally agree, high school is a time where you find out who you are, not rush to get to โ€œstandardsโ€ made by society
Howโ€™s your Saturday been?
I relate to this so much
Preach!
i love your rants!! ๐Ÿ˜‚ yes, i agree that there is too much pressure to date early these days. but at the same time, young adult relationships are a part of growing up. sometimes loving someone else helps you love yourself ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ obviously, it can do the opposite as well. it depends on the person:) ๐Ÿ’• still, this is a really beautifully written speech ๐Ÿ˜‚
TOTALLY AGREE ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ YOU SPOKE MY WORDS
I really love this๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿโœจ I like how you didn't focus or complain on the fact that you don't have a significant other and that that is ok. Beautiful message. I love when you do these messagesโค๏ธ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป
I can 100% relate to this !!! ๐Ÿ’“ I agree that people want to rush through life, but as you said, having boyfriends is more for adulthood. I'm sure that the perfect guy will come along one day, at a time when you're ready. Just don't overthink things & stress too muchโ€” enjoy not being an adult whilst it lasts ๐Ÿ’ž๐ŸŒฟ๐Ÿ’ซ xx
I completely agree with you, I feel the same way. like you, I donโ€™t want to be in a relationship just yet, but when I see everyone in relationships or complaining how they arenโ€™t in one, I feel alone. so thank you for sharing thisโœจ
ahh no one couldโ€™ve said it better, we donโ€™t need a boy to feel complete. The right person will come at the right time, I think we should just focus on making good friends and learning. youโ€™re a true inspiration Kathryn, wonderful rant/speech!! xx ๐Ÿ’•๐ŸŒฟ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ
and I feel the same, I feel like everything I do is wrong, or people wouldโ€™ve judged it, Iโ€™m here if you need to rant โœจ
YES!!! ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป
oh I relate
You couldnโ€™t have said it better. I totally agree
so this weekend, i was with my friends from since i was younger. My two friends started talking about boys and how they need a boy in their lives to make them feel complete and they were describing their ideal boy. They were even complaining how they don't have boyfriends yet and how if they don't find a boy, their lives will never be the same. So they were talking about their ideal guy and they even asked me and my other friend what we thought about our ideal guy and how my friend and I weren't complaining we don't have boyfriends, but to be honest i wasn't interested. I think when it's time, I would figure out what my ideal and perfect guy is, so i completely agree with your post. I'm in no rush and this couldn't of been said better. Sorry this is so long, but I kinda had to get this out๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜ซ
i think you have the right mindset. getting into a relationship at this age, while all glitzy and asserts social status, really isn't worth the trouble. also, i know you're very shy. that doesn't mean you have to change and be super extroverted in order to find someone you genuinely like. you literally do not have to change at all. every time i show up to school looking like a crumpled paper bag, i think to myself: if anyone were to actually, genuinely like me then they wouldn't care what i looked like. but other than that what you're saying makes total sense. theres a guy i like because he looks like one of my favorite book characters, but a girl that's usually mean to me is one that i always see him talking with. don't involve yourself with toxicity; patience shows true strength of morale.
Honestly, I have mixed opinions about this subject. I think dating in high school is okay, but you don't HAVE to be in a relationship, and it kind of forces people to try and find one because they think it's necessary.
Honestly, I feel the same way. All my friends are involved in a relationship while I'm here crushing on the wrong guys. Sometimes I wonder if anybody would ever like me in that way. It's depressing sometimes. Life's good, then something happens that makes me think otherwise. But still, dating is not a necessity. In high school, like you said, we must take the time to find who we are. To take care of ourselves. Also, we must worry about our studies and getting into college - the important stuff. Not who's prettier, who's cooler, who's funnier and all that stereotypical stuff/'branding' in high school.
I have never related to anyone so much in my life. all of the things you said are so true. I myself feel the same way and it feels good knowing someone else is actually talking about this. dating isnโ€™t bad but I do agree that someone people are just in a relationship just because everyone else is.