their not meant to be pet names, their meant so you can talk about them and nobody will understand

first of all this is kinda directed at pro Ana or pro main blogs cause they need to stop these are disorders that can kill someone and all they do is recommended it to people and that's not okay

secondly of you have any of these you shouldn't secretly be talking about them if you have them you probably aren't mentally stable and should get help

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why do I need to stop? all I'm doing is telling people to stop romanticizing depression self harm ect., telling people to stop posting self harm, and telling people to stop encouraging people with pro Ana pro Mia blogs ect. because those are things that can actually kill you

I'm not saying you can't talk about it I'm just saying going to a therapist would help

and when you talk about it don't romanticize it because then people don't take these things seriously

and definitely don't encourage others to hurt themselves or starve themselves

and by you saying this and others saying this it just makes them feel worse. I don't want to starve myself, but I do anyway and if someone tells me to stop I want to starve even more

this for people and blogs that encourage others to do this like pro Ana and pro Mia

and I'm saying for them to be taking seriously so if you have any of these you should want them to be taking seriously

it is taken seriously and when it is not the people who don't take it seriously can blame themselves when the person dies

not all people take it seriously it has become a trend because people post it and get attention and so on I'm not saying everyone is like that

the person shouldn't die they should go get help because you can get better and you'll be so much happier when you are

that's not true at all. The statement: 'Therapists help with mental illness' is complete shît. I've been to many, many, many therapists and none help. I'm still where I started. I agree that we shouldn't romanticize the idea that 'if you have scars you'll be loved no matter what'. That CAN be true, 'Broken girl meets broken boy' CAN be true (not likely though).

we are saying that you should try to get help for someone we know not everybody gets helped by a therapists but it may be able to help someone and it's a better to try a therapist then do nothing because they may help well doing nothing will get you no where. we aren't saying you can't be loved with scars we are saying no one will want to be with you just because you have scars. it can be true but again were saying many people get in there head this image of depression being nice because they will fall in love with this boy and so forth. that may happen but it's not a reason to start cutting or something like that

I told one person abt my 'problem' and they told everyone in the grade. no friends and everyone thinks I'm a psychopath. If people don't have your problems, they won't love you. pretty which the conclusion. unless it's a really really really close friend, then they'll love you