trying the whole positive thing....

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trying the whole positive thing....


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this is awesome!
also as far as what /you/ did...I’d say he’s partially mad that you put up with it and didn’t tell him but he’s also probably just worried about you
people yell when they’re worried
ok so it sounds like there are a couple things you did that would deserve yelling in his mind. how old are you hope?
well that’s another thing is Kaiden is not only four years older than you but he’s an adult so that’s also illegal in some states so I think Jake is trying to protect you because Kaiden being older causes a whole bunch of potential problems
Jake just doesn’t want to see you hurt I think is the main thing
probably not 😅
try to set some boundaries with Kaiden and prove to Jake that you’re trying and stuff
i just mean with Kaiden boundaries like no sxx stuff like that cuz you probably don’t want to risk getting pregnant at 14 but also boundaries are good in relationships that were previously dangerous. it shows that you know what you don’t want and you’re willing to stand up for that
or if you don’t want to set boundaries try to respect jake’s wishes and see what he would like like with my parents my boyfriend and I don’t go on single dates often it’s normally doubles and that’s something they want not me but I’m respecting their wishes
yeah i can get that, but also it might make him uncomfortable cuz you’re his little sister and PDA and stuff. idk
it’s a little different though. he’s older and his girlfriend is pregnant with HIS kid it’s a little different. I understand it’s annoying but there are plenty of other ways to show affection to Kaiden without kissing him while Jake’s around
my best advice would be to talk to him about it
calmly
you don’t
oh... I remember when my gf had that rule but they didn’t stop me from entering her room.
I don’t think every brother likes there sister dating there friend but it happens
he probably thinks something bad because he just found that Kaiden used to abuse you and you’re also four years younger than him and he’s just looking out for you
basically you need to be ok with what he’s not ok with
like my boyfriend and i are seventeen and we’ve been dating almost eight months and we’re still rarely alone which isn’t a bad thing
spoken like a true fourteen year old
you ARE always going to be four years younger than Kaiden and when you’re still teenagers that gap is more significant than as adults
you hace all these valid points but unless you talk to him about it (without yelling) it’s not going to do anything
and i understand how annoying that can be. like I’m the oldest, but to my older group of cousins I’ll “always be twelve no matter how old I get” even though it’d only a two year difference and I’m seventeen now. that’s just the way it is younger siblings will always seem younger
but also I think it might be because he wants you to stay the sweet 14yo you are because yeah you have your problems and stuff going on but holy cow growing up can fxck. you. up. everything changes and then you change and it can be hard and Jake’s just looking out for you I promise
exactly
being protected is part of the process just accept it 😂
thanks? i only say it because my parents are more strict to me than they are to my younger siblings so I get it and I’m rolling with it and you know sometimes they’re right about stuff
fr hope I’m pulling stuff out of my ax trying to figure out the right thing to say so you should rly just talk to Jake about it
and tell Kaiden that I hope he’s doing swell cuz we’re kinda buddies? 😅😂✌️
yeah...😂idk he doesn’t know much about me but I got to know his life really well and the way he talked about his sisters and you just changed my view of him and the fact that I was able to help him out makes it an even more meaningful friendship
he probably feels bad for yelling
i gtg so you should hang out w him and talk and stuff. also he’s going to be a father so that’s a really stressful thing so go easy on him 😂
also please fill out my guess me form if you have time thank you!