I do like myself but I dislike myself cuz I lost the love of my life and I self harmed and I've been in bad moments that made me depressed😔

idk what I should do?

well I started to like my personality, honestly I think I'm a great person, but I still hate the way I look because I can't find the one. so I decided live my life with success, do what you can. and if along the way you don't find him/her at least you would have a best friend to live your life with.

yea but idk why I can't love my self

I just don't like the way I look, but I'm okay with my personality.