(this is for the advice column thing a majig) 😎 So I can say I have been in this situation and honestly it's really hard 😁 but you and your friend can't control who the boy like right? so it's in a way his decision. but spend some time with your girl and hang out and make a promise or pact or whatever to but friendship before the boy because hey friends are forever boys are just there. and remember BFFFLEWSB (best friends forever for life even with stupid boys) and if she is your real friend she won't be mad it will be something to laugh at later on in life 😋. I hope this helps! love Poodledoodle24