ok firstly, i dont want to ruin any friendships of yours, but if that was my friend id snap at her so bad. id confront her immediately

its always hard to make someone see their body differently, i would know because ive struggled with self esteem issues for years. im gonna try my best to say what i can to help. i want to make you feel good, but its gonna take some work 🖤 allow me to help u out 🙂

regarding eating disorders. starving yourself causes more problems than good. you might lose weight, but stunt your growth. or you might lose no weight at all and become sick 😕

so pls be careful. eat the amount that you need to intake 🙏

and pleeeease talk to your mother about this. ik it might not be an appealing thing to do, but it is necessary 🥺

^i really cannot say it in any other way than colin has. I too have struggled with self image and I know the feeling of never being pretty enough or always going out feeling ugly or afraid of what people think of me all to well. but let me just tell you that people don’t actually care much about appearances. once they get to know your personality, they won’t care regardless. I know this probably helped nothing but please reach out to someone if you feel like you need to, do not be afraid to seek help.

you don’t know me that well but I will not let you down. you are a human with feelings you can’t control and the pc community is awfully considerate and kind, as you might know, and I pretty much check my notifications every 5 seconds so if you need someone, I am here and just because we’re not close, it doesn’t mean that you’re not important to me.