yea... I know that I should but at the same time I want her to tell someone not me bc it's her situation and if I told someone I'd be throwing her into a lot of stress, fighting and maybe even have her taken away from her family, and it would be my fault... I've been trying to convince her to talk to someone and we have conversations almost every day about how I can help her but we can't find a conclusion :/ thank you so much Asta it must seem silly but just you telling me to calm down actually has helped me align my thoughts. thank you so much

aw joce it's not silly