well welcome to the Genderfluid club

Ask your mom to come into the room while you're in the closet, then walk out after rummaging for a few minutes, holding up a rainbow flag. Then just stare at her 😂💛 But seriously, if it were me, I'd ask them if we could sit down and have a serious conversation. Don't beat around the bush, say it in the beginning, then talk about all the things that make you happy in being who you are and how free it feels to be able to tell them what is so importantly different than what they know. When they see your joy and happiness in accepting and finding yourself, it'll be less of a shock, and it'll help them to keep focused on your happiness rather than their shock. This probs doesn't help at all buT GOOD LUCK FREN 💛