it’s going to be ok. I have an ex best friend and she keeps trying to be friends with me but then calls me a bad friend and tries to get me to be friends with her again bc she’s ‘depressed’. I’m almost positive she’s not depressed she just says that, which shouldn’t be a joke and she doesn’t get.

Aghh that's the legit worst. I've learned my lesson about gossip as well, it's never a good idea to talk about someone behind their back, even if they make you REALLY mad. (I've been there, I get it) Don't beat yourself up too much, though. The comment she made about your hair was uncalled for, and if I was genderfluid and someone said that to me, I definitely would've said something to my friends as well. You're in a tough situation, I think all you can do is apologize and admit that you screwed up (I know how hard it is, but it might work) and eventually she might come around. Good luck❤️

I'm so sorry :( I hope it gets better ❤️ I've been through a situation where I was talking about someone and my friends told them (which was right of them to do) and they were mad at me, but now we are all good. It only took a few days for us to sit down and talk about it. I'm sure it will be the same for you guys. And if not, everything will be okay ❤️

I hope you and your friend get to talk

I'm so sorry fren!!!!! I hope you all sit down and talk this through, and I hope everything gets better 💙

I was gonna say stuff but SummerSeedrian said it better than I'll be able to so yeah idk I'm bad at this. I'm sorry you have to go through this shįt, I hope it gets better soon 💙

No prob 💙💙💙

ah shoot man, school and relationships can be hard but just remember all of you are humans that make mistakes but you can own up to your actions and to be real, honesty is the best policy so just express your feelings and try to understand her perspective a lil bit.

i mean like don’t excuse her exorsexism if she’s like that but see if u can work it out y’know. ur completely valid, my friend and no one can change that.

i can’t give advice. but tbh maybe talk to her about how you don’t like someone telling you you look remotely femenine ?? idk i hope you work it out

regardless of Eliza’s intentions, she shouldn’t have said you looked like a girl. Besides people aren’t completely good or evil, and just because you did one bad thing that doesn’t erase the other good things you have done before and will do in the future.