to respond to your comment on my collage: my advice is don't even worry about guys yet! first because they're just guys, they're nothing special. :P and second because you're so young! Boys mature even slower than girls do, so to be honest they don't know what the heck they're doing until they're much older. so I would just simply give things time, everything will work out for you eventually, I promise <3 maybe not with the same guy but who cares?? who needs him anyways?? there's PLENTY more guys out there who would be lucky to have a great girl like you :)