hey how do i tell my irl friends that they make me feel uncomfortable and that our friendship is borderline abusive? but also i kind of like them sometimes and they really arent terrible people...

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hey how do i tell my irl friends that they make me feel uncomfortable and that our friendship is borderline abusive? but also i kind of like them sometimes and they really arent terrible people...

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i’m sorry ahhh you shouldn’t have to go through that
idk how to help... at one point i didn’t like my friends so one day at lunch i was like, hey do you mind if i go sit with (my other friends who are now my best friends) and they’re like yeah, go and some of them were even pushing me away and it was so hard to walk away bc i had been friends with them for two years at least and it was just so hard i still remember the feeling and this was two years ago. i can remember the feeling of “you’re leaving them permanently and you’re never going to be friends with them again” and now guess what none of them are friends and i’m still talking to 2 out of 3 of them so i guess there’s a happy ending to this story??
idk how that can help i just felt like telling you lol
like maybe there’s a point?? like it’s okay to leave you’re friends for better friends because you’ll like them more lol
talk to them,, and if there hurting u I think u should just leave them and make new friend,, which ik is hard out if it’s bad for u stay away ig(srry if this is rlly bad lol)
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