I have a question... I think I'm bi, and I know my family would be fine with it, but I have never had a crush on a real life girl. do I still count? I see girls the way I see some guys, but I haven't had a girlfriend... all the girls in my school are really annoying, and I most likely won't date any of them... but can I still be bi if I've never dated a girl?!?! I think I can, but i need someone else's advice... I like tamale characters and actresses, and I'm really sensitive when people call the lesbian and then someone "defends" me and calls me straight, cause I don't think a am... thoughts?