also question: since i’m 18 and i pay for my phone my mom can’t take it away or look through it right? i mean my dad bought it for me back in October and i payed about $5 each month until since January i’ve been paying for it all on my own. just Emma and i have had a ton of conflicts w my mom recently (idk how i haven’t been sharing this idek if any of y’all remember how awful she is when i used to talk about it) but we noticed Emma’s phone password written on the whiteboard in the kitchen?? so Emma changed her password and i’m wondering if i should change mine or if i’m fine bc i’m an adult and i pay for it :/

honestly if u pay for it then it’s yours and u are an adult so she shouldn’t take it away