Oh, and have you guessed who this "friend" was?

no, who?

Same person it always is.....Peridork.

I love her, but the way she says things, and the way she reacts and spreads drama on her page....I wish she would stop getting on people for talking about their problems when she posts about it all the time.

I'm sorry you feel that way..i won't lie to you, Peri can be a bit too bold when posting and reacting to/about certain things. and that can be frustrating sometimes.

but they're a good kid deep down I know

She freakin posted my comment on her page with a message saying that I need to stop whining and crying about my weight and accept that I'm beautiful. Well, I'm sorry Peri, but it's not that easy. When she posted that, I yelled at her and told her I was sick of her doing things like this. And she got mad at me.

Honestly, if she has a problem with something I say, she can talk to me about it, rather than POSTING IT FOR THE WHOLE WORLD TO SEE.

I love her to death, but she really pïsses me off sometimes.

that was a bit of a false move she did. she didn't have to post it for everyone to see. that was just between you and her right?

Yep. And I wasn't doing anything for attention. I was just commenting what I felt about the post.

you just wanted her to listen right?

Yes! And I know yelling and cussing at her wasn't the right approach, but I was frícken mad! She made me look like an attention-seeking fool who needs to look up to her "great example".

oh my gosh..I know this feeling. so basically she was making you feel like a whining child wanting attention when in truth you just wanted someone to reach out and talk to?

EXACTLY! And whenever I try to talk to her, SHE NEVER LISTENS! She is specifically the reason why I don't post updates on my health like I used to. I'm afraid of her making a big show out of it.

ah! I see! so maybe you'd feel more comfortable with talking to those you trust who will listen, rather than putting your emotions out there for the whole world to see?

Yes! Because I know she's going to be the one person who tries to make me look desperate for attention.

That's why I've only really told you about certain things. I know I can trust you.

oh my goodness I need to show you this video right now. go look at my other account real quick.

That's EXACTLY what I'm talking about! Except for how my problems aren't as simple as a nail in my head, but I just want someone to listen.

mhm! it's hard when you try to talk to people about your problems when they keep telling you how to fix it and that makes you feel like you're not very smart about the situation, when really you just want listeners and for people to understand.

I'm so glad someone understands now....and the fact is some people think certain problems can all be solved with a simple fix, when it's not that easy, but they keep forcing their solutions onto you.

Do you know what I mean?

I know exactly what you mean. some problems cannot just simply be 'fixed' and everything will be all fine and dandy for the long run. it's not how the world works.

I wish that everyone knew that....